Blowjobs for Beginners

Giving or receiving a blow job for the first time can be quite daunting. For a girl, just the thought of putting that unfamiliar object in her mouth is terrifying - will it choke her? What will it taste like? What should she do with it? For a guy, you need to try not to come to soon or make her gag without her permission! With so much to think about, it might seem difficult to concentrate on the task at hand. Instead of ruining an experience that should be pleasurable, follow these tips from our escort girls for a brilliant blow job.

GUYS: Before putting your manhood anywhere near her face, make sure you’re showered and clean. Any unpleasant odours will be a huge turn off - you don’t want to put the poor girl off blow jobs for life! It’s also useful to trim your pubic hair so it’s not too bushy; she doesn’t like getting hair in her mouth any more than you do. Find a position that’s comfortable for both of you, such as on a bed or a sofa. If she’s on her knees on the floor, give her a cushion.

It’s easy to get carried away during something this good, but be respectful to her. Don’t try to shove it down her throat or push her head - this may upset her and make her want to stop. Instead, hold her head or hair gently and let her know what feels good. Give her some warning before you come so that she can decide whether you ejaculate in her mouth or not.

GIRLS: Although it’s called a blow job, don’t blow! Start off by making sure your mouth is wet. Although it seems a bit gross at first, men love lubrication so get it as wet as possible using your own saliva. Start off rubbing with your hand along the shaft of his penis, then take the head into your mouth. Be careful not to scrape him with your teeth - cover them with your lips so that this doesn’t happen. As you move your mouth down, only go as deep as is comfortable for you; going into your throat will hit your gag point - this skill can be learned and controlled, but that will come later.

During blow jobs, you can change technique to keep things interesting instead of just going in and out. Use your tongue to swirl around the tip of his penis, and don’t be afraid to stroke or lick his testicles too. With one hand wrapped around the base of his penis, take the rest into your mouth and go up and down with your lips pressed to his skin. You could try twisting your head slightly each time you come up to the head for a different sensation.

You have several options if he ejaculates: either you let him come in your mouth, which means you can spit it out (into a tissue!) or swallow it. This is harmless, but the taste will be unfamiliar at first. Otherwise, you can let him come into a tissue or somewhere on your body. It’s best to discuss this before hand so that there are no misunderstandings.