It’s fair to say that men often have sex on the mind. Many of us have naturally high libidos, meaning that sex can dominate our conversations and discussions, activities and jokes. Amongst other men, this is completely acceptable; women on the other hand are not always so understanding. They also have a sex drive, but don’t seem to put it on show as often as men do and don’t necessarily like it if we flaunt ours in public.

If you’re in a new relationship, there are a few things you should tone down so that you don’t scare her off. Your mates might think you’re legendary for some of your past antics, but she might just feel inadequate or think that you’re sex mad.

First of all, don’t brag about sexual conquests or having met up with sexy London escort girls; not only could this make your new girl uncomfortable, but it might also make her feel jealous or insecure. Women often compare themselves to each other, so if you’ve been with really hot girls in the past, don’t flaunt it in front of her. This applies even if it was long before you met her – it might not be logical but it’s how many women feel!

It’s perfectly acceptable for a man to occasionally venture to a strip club; perhaps you’re entertaining business clients, or you might be out on a stag do. However, if you find yourself there once a week, you might want to reign it in; this will scare off the majority of women should they find out. It indicates that you aren’t being satisfied sexually elsewhere, and that you’re thinking about more than just looking at the stripper girls (even if you don’t stand a chance with them).

In the old days, men used to have to hide their stashes of pornography. It used to be magazines and videos, but now there is a whole wide world on the internet that can be watched for free. You can even see porn star escorts just by typing it in a search engine! Girls know how easily available it is now, so there’s no excuse for keeping a naughty stash hidden under your bed. Throw it out, delete any saved files on your computer and let her think that you just have a small, healthy interest in porn.

If you’re getting regular sex and your libido is still through the roof, try to keep some of it under wraps out of respect for her. Masturbate in private when you won’t get caught, clear your browsing history after looking at porn and don’t ever make sexual jokes about her girl friends!