Don’t Push Her Away
Being in love can drive you crazy. When you’re dizzy with desire, your judgement gets clouded and you might behave out of character! It’s very rare to find a relationship that is perfectly balanced; usually one person is more keen than the other.
Although love is one of the most wonderful feelings in the world, it can often be accompanied by feelings of jealousy, resentment and despair – that’s just the way the cookie crumbles. Even if you’re usually a level headed guy, you might find new emotions surfacing that you haven’t felt before. Seeing a good looking man chatting up your girlfriend can suddenly make you see red and act out. You may feel just in your reaction, but blowing up will probably upset your her and leave you in the dog house…
The first step is to recognise when your behaviour is unreasonable. This can be difficult in the heat of the moment; passion can make you lose your temper and say things you regret. However, you need to exercise great self control otherwise you could risk losing your girlfriend. If you are angry with her, take yourself out of the situation until you have calmed down and think clearly. She will not put up with a man who shouts at her or who makes rash accusations. If you are feeling jealous, it’s best to keep the feelings to yourself unless you have any kind of proof that she has been unfaithful. You could jeopardise a great relationship over nothing if you accuse her of something she hasn’t done.
Trust is very important for a relationship, and so is allowing each other space. Of course you love to spend time together, but you should also make time for your friends. When she is out with the girls, don’t bombard her with texts and calls; this will make you look desperate and could leave her feeling stifled. Give her space when she needs it, and she’ll be all the more glad to come back to you.
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