Flirting doesn’t come naturally to everyone. Even guys with great social skills can converse easily with their mates and do a great job at public speaking, but then turn into a gibbering moron when a beautiful woman is thrown into the equation!
If you’re one of those men who can’t quite get the hang of flirting, follow these tips to show her what an Adonis you can really be!
For starters, you need to be confident. Believe that you have the potential to win this girl over, otherwise she’s not going to buy it. Don’t assume that if she turns you down, there must be something wrong with you – she could have a boyfriend, be a lesbian, only goes for redheads… you never know what reasons she has. Remember that there is a fine line between confidence and arrogance; some women like a man to be sure of himself, but don’t go over the top.
Try not to be a sleaze. Yes, she might have a great rack, but telling her so or fixing your gaze on her cleavage will not win you any brownie points with any girl. Concentrate so that you remember to look into her eyes (no intense staring – this will freak her out).
Use your strengths to win her over rather than pretending to be someone you’re not; if you have a good sense of humour, make her laugh. If you’re clever, impress her with your knowledge or if you have a great body make sure you can show it off without being too obvious (don’t start flexing your ‘guns’, this will look ridiculous). She will appreciate you being genuine, and will probably be able to see straight through you if you’re not.
Compliments are great, but keep them in moderation. You want to make the girl feel like she would be lucky to pull you, not just the other way round. Our London escorts are used to receiving compliments because they have such stunning looks, but they also love to be kept on their toes. Try mixing in a bit of gentle teasing with your compliments to make her want you even more.
Read her body language so that you know how far to go; if she is being coy, you might be in there. However if she keeps turning away from you to speak to someone else, it’s probably time to give up and move on. If the chemistry between you is good, things will work themselves out naturally.