The Green Eyed Monster
Jealousy can ruin your chances with the girl of your dreams or break a strong relationship. Getting it right can be a tricky task due to women being so fickle, but it is important to try to find the right balance. Our London escorts are used to being looked at by other men – they can’t help being so beautiful! If this happens when they are out with you, don’t fly into a jealous rage; remember that you’re the man she’s there with. All you need to do is put an arm around her. This will gently mark your territory, warning off the other guys without scaring off your girl!
Women actually like men to be a tiny bit jealous. It shows that you care and that you only want her to be yours; if you don’t even notice other men coming onto her, she will be offended. However, there are many ways you can take it too far if you can’t control your urges, and if you act on these you could lose her for good. Extreme behaviour will even make her think that you’re a psycho! For example, if you ban her from talking to any other men when she’s out, you’re headed for dumpsville. All it does is show that you’re hugely insecure and paranoid that she’ll find someone better and leave you: not an attractive quality. You need to trust her when she’s out with her girlfriends or at work; let her have freedom to see whomever she wants – if she’s worth staying with, she won’t stray. If she cheats on you, she doesn’t deserve you anyway!
Never interrogate your girl about where she has been and who she has spoken to. Checking up on her like this will make her feel stifled and suffocated in the relationship; it is normal for her to interact with men on a daily basis, as it is for her to have male friends. Even if you suspect that a few of her male friends would love to do all kinds of things to her, it’s not your place to fly off the handle every time she bumps into them. Remember that it’s her you need to trust, not them. She probably feels the same way about your female friends, but it’s how you handle the situation that counts.
Don’t let the green eyed monster take over; keep your jealousy in check and you have a much better chance of keeping the girl!