Keep Your Woman Happy
Do you ever find that you meet a woman and get together, everything’s perfect for the first 6 to 12 months, then it all starts going downhill? You are both the same people you were when you first met, so why the sudden change?
It would seem that you’ve come to the end of ‘the honeymoon period’. Almost every relationship goes through that blissful stage at the beginning: you make love all the time, you’re blind to each other’s flaws and you only want to please each other. As you gradually get more used to each other, the irritating habits become more apparent and are no longer cute like they once were; you find yourself less insatiable and you begin to take each other for granted. For many lust driven relationships, this marks the beginning of the end – but it doesn’t have to be that way.
When you start to notice these signs, it’s time to pick up your game. We can guarantee you that your girl will have noticed the signs too, though she probably hasn’t mentioned it. Try to make a conscious effort to continue the romance; a red rose here, a love letter there. A small gesture can go a long way. And whatever you do, never forget her birthday, your anniversary or Valentines day! Write down the dates in your diary NOW, and make a fuss of her on these occasions.
You also need to make sure that your expectations are realistic. She might seem perfect at first and a wild vixen in the bedroom, but the initial passion will inevitably die down eventually. She is not likely to be able to maintain a sex drive as high as a horny London escort , so don’t expect a marathon every time. Lazy morning sex or an afternoon quickie can be just as hot, and spontaneity is a great way to keep the passion alive in your relationship.
Don’t forget to compliment your lady. If you’ve noticed that she looks nice, tell her so. If you love that black lace underwear she has on, let her know about it. It will make her feel good about herself and more attracted to you. Some of these points may seem quite obvious, but you’d be amazed at how easy it is to forget the fundamentals!
Another important aspect of keeping your girl happy is to support her decisions. Whether she’s considering a career change, a drastic haircut or a diet, try to let her know that you’re behind her whatever she decides. If you don’t agree with her choice, make your opinion known but don’t withdraw your support. If you work on all of these points, you should be on your way to a happy, content relationship.