Explore Your Sexual Limits

You probably will have heard of many bizarre sexual fetishes in your time. They can vary from the extreme and ridiculous such as bestiality, through to much more common and socially accepted practices such as mild BDSM and foot fetishes. While some men have an innate knowledge that steers them towards their sexual preferences, others may have never discovered their niche because they don’t try anything new! Sometimes this is from a strict, traditional or religious upbringing that prevented any ‘funny business’; non adventurous partners can also stop you finding out what unusual things do it for you in bed.

Luckily, many of us are sexually liberated and have discovered what gets us off, and the rest of the world can learn from our knowledge. Some of our Greenford escorts particularly enjoy dressing up in kinky outfits, as well as having a bit of tie and tickle. Because they’re so fun and confident, they’re never afraid to try something new!

If you’re still only having sex with the lights off in the missionary position, it’s time to shake things up a bit. It can be so much better than that! It can be a difficult topic to broach if your other half isn’t very forthcoming, but talk it through together and start off with the simple things. For example, if she is insecure about her body, make love in low lighting or candlelight which will compliment both of you. Try variations on your normal positions, such as holding her legs up in missionary to achieve deeper penetration. Gradual changes like this should help her to warm up and remember how enjoyable sex can be.

If you have no idea where to start, try getting inspired by reading erotic literature or watching some porn. If something arouses you more than the rest, take note. It might be an older woman, sex outdoors or a greased up woman rolling around in lubricant. A lot of men get kicks out of anything considered a bit naughty, such as anal sex or getting a bit rough with hair pulling or scratching. ALWAYS ask your partner’s permission before you try this!

To go a step further, look into more hardcore BDSM, roleplay, perhaps group sex or the swinger’s scene. Experiment with different sights, sounds and environments. Some people like to introduce an element of fear or pain into their sex play, using an agreed ‘safety word’ as the get out in case they become uncomfortable. There’s a whole wide world of opportunity out there, so explore your sexual limits and live life to the full!