Overcome Your Sexual Anxieties

Having sex for the first time with someone new can be very intimidating, especially if it’s a girl you really like and are desperate to impress. You start to worry whether or not she’ll be impressed with your skills, whether your penis is big enough and if you can make her come. As soon as you let these anxieties get the better of you, you’ll stop enjoying yourself and the whole experience will lose it’s magic.

Some men are nervous around gorgeous girls in general, so it may help in these cases to spend some time with beautiful London escorts beforehand; this will help you relax and get used to female companionship.

To really impress her on the first time you make love, you need to be confident in yourself. Some men think that size is everything, but if you’re manhood falls below the average erect size of 6 inches there’s no need to fret. As long as you learn some moves in other departments, size won’t be an issue for her. Focus on developing your oral and manual skills – most women come more often from oral sex than from penetration. Try inserting your finger into her vagina while you lick her clitoris; this combo is very popular for girls!

A common worry is that you will ejaculate prematurely, but there are many things you can try to prevent this. Spend more time working on her, touching and stroking all over her body. Don’t let her touch you at first, say that you want to please her and hold off for as long as you can. During sexual intercourse, some men try to think about other things to prevent them from coming too soon, and only allow themselves to concentrate on the present when their partner is either close or has already climaxed. If you do come too soon don’t worry; you can always take a break and have another go! Fill this time by giving her a long, sensual massage and she’ll love you forever!

If you’re worried about being able to keep it up, try not to think about it too much. If all the blood goes to your brain because he’s working so hard, it won’t be able to fill your penis! Relax, take a deep breath and just let your mind register how much she turns you on. Don’t drink too much alcohol to calm your nerves as this will hinder your ability to maintain an erection.

The most important thing is to believe in yourself and don’t put unnecessary pressure on yourself to perform. If you really like each other there will be many more times after this, and remember – practise makes perfect!