Why Contraception Is So Important
Back in secondary school, you had to sit through an embarrassing sex education class, while an awkward, bumbling teacher tried to roll a condom onto a carrot. The situation is just about as far away from real sex as you can get! Luckily, as we get older we learn a lot more from friends, magazines, television and personal experience.
There are two main reasons to use contraception when you have sex: to prevent the spread of STIs (Sexually Transmitted Infections) and to prevent unwanted pregnancies. There’s no scarier thought for a man than a girl he had a one night stand with turning up at his door and announcing that she’s with child! It’s for these reasons that our Chiltern escorts are so vigilant during any of their sexual encounters.
When you decide to sleep with someone new, you probably assume that they’re on the same page as you. Nobody wants to catch an infection, and she doesn’t want to get pregnant with some guy she’s just met. Or does she? Most of you will have heard horror stories about women who are desperate for a baby and trick a guy into getting them pregnant. It’s an awful thing to do, but it does happy! The way girls do this is by telling men that they’re clean of STIs and on another kind of contraception such as the pill, the coil or the contraceptive injection. If you’ve just met this girl you can’t just take her word for it – she could be lying. To be safe, use a condom anyway, and don’t stop using them until you’ve both been tested at a GUM clinic and you have proof that she is fully protected.
There are some signs you can look for to see if this girl wants you for your body or your sperm, so be aware of the following traits. If she’s desperate and lonely, she might see you as a free ticket to a family. These girls should be avoided purely on the basis that they will be clingy and annoying, but if they trap you with a baby you’ll be tied to them forever. Watch out for older women who might think that their time is running out to have a child, or for foreign girls who are having difficulty getting a British passport. If you have a crazy ex who is offering you no strings attached sex, beware: all she needs is a baby with your name on it to trap you into some kind of relationship with her for the rest of your life.
Hopefully this hasn’t put you off sex forever, most women are nothing like this! Our escort girls wouldn’t dream of it. All you need to do is use a condom, and you really can have safe sex.