Does Absence Make the Heart Grow Fonder?

Poets throughout history have taught us that “absence makes the heart grow fonder”. For some, this is very true; the longer you’re apart from your loved one, the more you will miss them, and the more your heart aches to be with them. However, in modern day life, this phrase could be used in various situations.

Have you ever had one of those friends who drops all their mates the moment they get into a new relationship? They love their girl so much that they end up living in each other’s pockets, ignoring the rest of the world and focused on each other. If that’s been you, it might sound romantic at first, but it is not a healthy balance and rarely has a happy ending. Eventually, those idiosyncrasies that you once found so endearing will become annoying, and you’ll regret freezing out your friends. Don’t be surprised if they get the hump with you – you can’t disappear for the best part of a year and then expect to be reintegrated into the group as if you’ve never been gone. Real friends will forgive you, but they’ll want you to have learned your lesson.

At times like this, they may try to remind you that absence makes the heart grow fonder; spending time apart from your girlfriend may actually strengthen your relationship. It will stop you getting sick of each other or too dependent on each other; you need to focus on other areas of your life too, even if she is your number one.

This could also have been used as an excuse by cowardly lovers who are growing tired of their other half’s company; if she wants to be with you all the time and you don’t know how to get rid of her, whip out this romantic line and she might be placated! However, if you’re really that desperate to get away from her, perhaps you should re-evaluate where your relationship is going. It might also be the case that if you are apart for a while and you don’t miss each other, it could be the wake up call you need to realise that things aren’t right.

Some of our regular clients have a favourite escort, but they only book her on special occasions. They might think that if they saw the same cheap blonde escort every week that they might grow too attached, or the magic might wear off eventually. By seeing other escort girls in between, each time with your favourite escort will feel fresh, new and exciting. In this case, absence really does make the heart grow fonder!