Getting Over Your Ex

Breaking up with a long time partner or spouse can be one of the most difficult things you have to go through. The hardest situation is if your other half breaks up with you when you’re not prepared for the relationship to end, or if you have a home or children together. It makes things more complicated and eliminates the possibility of a clean split.

If you’re going through a difficult break up, try the following advice to help you move on.

Accept That It’s Over This is the first step in getting over your ex. There’s no point holding onto false hope of a reconciliation if they have had their final word. It’s unlikely you’ll be able to change their mind, and even if you do succeed, the original reasons for breaking up will still be there and are bound to resurface again. You need to accept that this is the end of your relationship, and not torture yourself wondering what you could’ve done differently.

If you’re having trouble getting her off your mind, distract yourself by keeping busy and spending time with friends. Try to stay positive and focus on the good things you’ve got going for you. Although it’s a cliché, time is a healer and soon you’ll be able to enjoy being single again.

Learn From Your Mistakes If you don’t confront what went wrong with your partner, you might risk making the same mistakes all over again. Accept what problems were your fault and keep these in mind when embarking on new relationships. Everyone learns from their past – it’s all part of growing and developing. Don’t hold a grudge against your ex for her mistakes; letting go of any resentment will stop you becoming bitter.

If you do have children together or even mutual friends, it’s important to work on building a friendly relationship with your ex. You must show a strong front to your children, and try not to make your friends feel awkward or like they need to take sides.

Have Fun Again You need to rediscover yourself and remember that you had fun before your ex came along. You still have your friends, family and work colleagues. Perhaps now you have the free time to take up a new hobby that you couldn’t before, something you’ve always wanted to do. If you’re missing female company but don’t want to jump straight into another relationship, try hiring one of our beautiful Parsons Green Escorts to spend time with. That will definitely help you to forget about your ex!