How to Cope if Your Girlfriend is an Escort

Although many escorts prefer to stay single so that they can see whichever gentlemen they choose, some are in relationships. As you can understand, having an escort for a girlfriend definitely has its ups and downs. On the plus side, she is likely to be drop dead gorgeous, have a great personality and know exactly how to satisfy you. On the other hand, she may keep unsociable working hours, and you have to deal with the jealously of her being around other men all the time. If you ever find yourself in this position, you may find the information below helpful.

If you already knew that your girlfriend was an escort when you first met, it wouldn’t be fair to criticise her profession. You knew what you were getting in to, and you can see why she is so popular. Even if you can support her financially, she may wish to remain independent and earn her own money. It can give you a real feeling of self worth, and she may feel devalued if she has to rely on you for money. If you could accept that she was an escort girl in the beginning, you should be able to accept it now. However, if she kept her escort job a secret from you and you found out, it will cause problems in your relationship. First of all it means she has been lying to you, and also you may not be able to cope with the idea of her seeing other men.

Getting past this first hurdle is the first step. The next one is to establish how her relationship with you is different to that with her clients. Is there any private thing that she saves only for you? You need to trust that with her clients it is strictly business, and with you it is pleasure. Having dinner with them does not mean the same thing to her if her heart is yours, but only the two of you can know this.

To make the relationship work, you need to set some ground rules. Decide whether you want her to share details of her work with you, or if you’d prefer not to know anything about it. Make sure you have a job or a hobby that will keep you occupied while she is working so that you don’t have too much time on your hands left to think about what she might be doing. If you let your mind run away with you, it will drive you crazy!

Ultimately, it will always be a challenge to date an escort girl long term. Some men manage just fine, but for others, jealousy gets the better of them. Just remember that your girl is worth the effort!