Sometimes it seems impossible to understand women. If only we knew what they were thinking, our lives would be so much easier! On the one hand, it’s quite nice for them to remain a mystery to be solved; it keeps our lives interesting and makes them much more enticing. On the other hand, it can be so frustrating when you simply can’t work out what they want! This is why we like to get an insight into the female mind now and again. We wouldn’t want to be there all the time, but the brief glimpse does help!
The best way to do this is to have platonic female friends or to be friendly with female relatives. Your mother doesn’t count – she will not give you an accurate perspective! If you have a close friendship with a sister or cousin around your age, you’re much more likely to get some sense out of them.
If you have female friends who you consider platonic because you would never go out with them, but you have drunkenly snogged them a few times, it does not count. As soon as sex or emotions are thrown into the mix, even if it’s just on her part, she will start to censor what she tells you. She’ll say she doesn’t mind something when she does, or that she likes something when she doesn’t. Instead of getting a good insight into how women think, she’s just telling you what you want to hear. This also goes for wives, girlfriends, ex girlfriends, `escort girls <https://vlondonescorts.co.uk/> and potential girlfriends.
Most of us are guilty of sneaking a peek at a woman’s magazine when we get the chance. It doesn’t make you any less manly – consider it research! Just as we’re stereotyped in men’s magazines as only caring about boobs, football, cars and work outs, women’s magazines only discuss men, fashion, celebrities and diets. Girls actually go a lot deeper than that, but reading these magazines isn’t a bad place to start! When you first get to know a woman and want to impress her, try picking up some tips here. Once it gets to the stage where you need to connect with her on a much deeper, less superficial level, you will know each other so well that it comes naturally.
Every woman is different and we’re never going to be able to understand them completely, but that’s the beauty of it! Embrace our differences, and accept that at the end of the day, she is always going to be right.