Is Your Sex Life Stuck in A Rut?

Sex is supposed to be exciting, spontaneous and fun. If you find that you’ve started to do it out of habit instead of desire or you feel that it’s become monotonous, now is the time to do something about it. That’s almost as depressing as all food tasting like cabbage – you’re not making the most out of one of life’s greatest pleasures! Look out for some of these signs, and if they look familiar then it’s time to change your ways.

The odd quickie is great, but if you find that sex never lasts more than 10 minutes any more, there’s a problem. Firstly, your partner almost certainly isn’t sexually satisfied; women take longer than this to build up to a climax. It also means that you’re just having sex for the sake of it and have forgotten how wonderful it can be. To resolve this problem, spend the first 10 – 15 minutes of your love making purely on foreplay. Your girl will be very grateful, and both of you will have better orgasms. Good sex helps build good relationships and will minimise any tension between you.

Another indicator is if your sex has to fit into a planned schedule to fit around your busy lifestyle. It’s not the kind of thing that should be pencilled into your diary, or should only occur on Wednesdays at 9pm. Sex should happen when the mood takes you or your girl, whatever time of day it is. Try to mix things up a bit by doing it at a different time such as in the morning, or take her by surprise to inject some spontaneity back into your relationship. This will make you remember how hot things can be between you, and before long you won’t be able to keep your hands off each other!

You could also try introducing things like new positions, different locations or trying something like role play or dressing up. Any one of these things could breathe new life into your love making, and could bring you and your partner closer together.

If you don’t have a partner but see our Walthamstow escorts on a regular basis, make your dates even more exciting by changing your routine. For example, if you normally meet an escort girl on a Friday night, change your appointment to a lunchtime mid week instead. Or if you usually see the same escort, choose a different girl and feel the thrill in your stomach of something new!