The ‘Friend’ Zone
It is still a hot topic of debate whether men and women can ever just be good friends. Most women think that yes, of course they can; what these women don’t realise that we have almost certainly fantasised about them sexually at one point or another. That doesn’t necessarily mean that we would have sex with them or even that we want to, but it’s a natural reaction to the opposite. We can imagine sex with just about any woman; our boss, our best friend’s wife, our mate’s sister. They seem to have absolutely no idea so it must be a different scenario for ladies!
You probably have plenty of female friends. They’re always good to have, because it gives you an insight into the female mind and helps you understand the opposite sex better. They can also gives you tips on style to make you more appealing to their own kind! You can quite easily find female friends attractive without acting on it, but the trouble starts when you start to have feelings for one of them.
It sounds like a nice story: a boy and girl become best friends, share everything and spend years enjoying each other’s company. One day, they suddenly realise that they’re in love and live happily ever after. Unfortunately, this only happens very rarely! It’s more often the case that if you have a platonic relationship, it will stay that way.
When you meet a new girl who you find attractive, you need to decide straight away whether she could be a potential lover or girlfriend, or if you’d be satisfied just having her as a friend. How you behave towards her will dictate how she sees you, and it’s all too easy to step into that “friend zone”; once you’re there, it’s very difficult to come back from it. You know you don’t stand a chance when she says to you “I love you like a brother”. Unlucky!
If you’ve decided that you want to be with one of your female friends romantically, don’t lay it on heavy and confess your undying love for her. This will make her run a mile, spoiling any kind of friendship you have together. The only way to get round this is to start being flirtatious to see if she reciprocates. If she doesn’t, it’s too late and you’re already in the friend zone. When this happens, the best way to get over it is by hiring a sexy London escort to take your mind off her!